For the best part of the last decade, since I made aliya, I have been hosting a women's seder with a small group of close friends in my Jerusalem apartment. Each year we write our own haggadah based around a different theme. Our seder Nashim doesn't replace the traditional seder, we hold it on Chol HaMoed. It is a chance to take time from the cleaning, the cooking, the family and the stress, to nurture ourselves.