{ "clip_details": { "clip": { "is_admin": 0, "is_owner": 0, "handle": "the-child-who-doesn-t-know-how-to-ask-a-question", "title": "The Child Who Doesn’t Know How to Ask a Question", "author": "The Blue Dove Foundation", "author_handle": "the-blue-dove-foundation", "author_initials": "TB", "covertext": "We are instructed to help this child by telling the story of when the Jews went forth from Egypt.An open and honest conv...", "user_image": "https://assets.haggadot.com/users/222672/conversions/Bird_BD-thumb.jpg", "user_image_original": "https://assets.haggadot.com/users/222672/Bird_BD.jpeg", "body": "<p>We are instructed to help this child by telling the story of when the Jews went forth from Egypt.An open and honest conversation about mental health starts with us. From the child who doesn't know how to ask, we learn accountability and our role in ending the cone of silence around mental health.</p>\n\n<p>For those who don't know where to start, we can begin the conversation. Almost all of us are the child who does not know how to ask at some point in our lives. There are so many reasons we may not know how to ask a question: We don’t have the vocabulary, we don’t know there is a question to ask, or perhaps we aren’t feeling comfortable and safe enough yet.</p>\n\n<p>Let's face it; we don't learn how to talk about mental health in school.</p>\n\n<p>We live in a world with a lot of shame and stigma around mental health disorders, substance abuse and even things as \"simple\" as depression. The child who does not know how to ask doesn't yet have the language to share what's going on for them, because we have not provided it to them yet. And this is where every Jewish person can have a role.</p>\n\n<p>When we are willing to stand up and share our experiences, to be open and vulnerable, and to start the conversation, we make space for everyone else to share. We send the clear message they are not alone and are supported by our communities. 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We all struggle; that’s part of being human. We all will have tough times when we need that helping hand. If we can remember to accept help, we can move forward and start to heal. And when we are in a stable place (free from what kept us stuck and oppressed) we can reach out to those still struggling, remembering that, as humans, we will go back and forth between freedom and oppression.</p>\n\n<p><strong>Egg (Beitzah): </strong> The egg represents the life cycle. It’s a reminder that there are times of sacrifice but also times of hope! After winter comes spring, and so it goes for mental health. It’s traditional to roast or char the egg, leading to a fun interpretation— an egg, just like us, is resilient! The hotter the flame, the tougher we get. We aren’t weakened by struggle; we overcome it and become stronger. </p>\n\n<p><strong>Vegetable (Karpas):</strong> The vegetables represent spring and regrowth, but we also dip them in saltwater to remind us of the tears of slavery. At the same time, we are meant to keep in mind the sorrow of pain and the joy regrowth brings, remembering all the while we can both struggle and love ourselves. At any given time, we are struggling, and we are growing. We may feel broken, but we are worthy. We acknowledge our past, accept ourselves for who we are and then face forward, working on ourselves to help us get to a better place.  </p>\n\n<p><strong>Bitter herbs, twice! (Maror and Hazeret): </strong>The bitter herbs we eat (sometimes begrudgingly!) remind us of the bitterness of slavery. We aren't meant to forget our struggles; rather, at Passover we bravely look them square in the face and acknowledge they are what have led us to this moment.</p>\n\n<p><strong>Haroset:</strong> This reddish or brownish mixture of apples, wine and cinnamon is meant to symbolize the clay used to make the bricks and mortar during slavery. Although it calls to mind hard work, it's sweet, representing the joy of freedom. 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Remember that everyone has these fears –– even the people who post these career updates.</p>\n\n<p><strong>Burnout</strong> - It is difficult to draw the line between the work day and the post-work day. Since everything is online, it feels like the work day never ends. Remember to emphasize the demarcation between work and relaxation to avoid burnout.</p>\n\n<p><strong>Bereavement/Grief </strong>- The most difficult part of a deadly virus must be not being able to grieve in the traditional manner. At a time when one wants to sit shiva and be physically close to others, most cannot be. With more than 500,000 deaths in the United States, many people are experiencing grief they are not able to deal with in the traditional manner.</p>\n\n<p><strong>Anxiety and depression</strong> - As of September 2020, eight out of 10 people experienced severe anxiety symptoms (mhanational.org). 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That number is 0.15 percent more than the previous year –– .015 percent might seem like a small number, but it accounts to about 500,000 people.</p>", "cliptype": "text", "clipsource": "https://thebluedovefoundation.org/passovers-connection-to-mental-health/", "featured": 0, "featuredIn": { "title": "Favorites 2021", "slug": "favorites-2021-1", "author": "Haggadot" }, "is_public": 1, "is_published": 1, "media": { "image": null, "audio": null, "video": null }, "thumbnail": null, "clip_section": [ { "haggadah_section": "-- Ten Plagues", "slug": "ten-plagues" } ], "likes": 0, "downloads": 312, "tags": [], "themes": [], "language": "0", "is_bookmarked": "0", "is_liked": 0, "meta_tags": { "title": "10 Plagues of Mental Health | Passover haggadah by The Blue Dove Foundation", "description": "Our simple platform allows you to create a custom Passover Haggadah, with access to unique content contributed by our community. 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Jews around the world perform the mitzvah (commandment) of passing along this tradition, and this story of liberation, to members of the next generation so they can connect with their Jewish heritage.</p>\n\n<p>The Haggadah speaks of four types of children who react differently to the Passover Seder: the “wise” child, the “wicked” child, the “simple” child and the child who “doesn’t know how to ask.” From here it becomes our job to create an inclusive space where we can provide answers to questions raised by all of these children and help them engage in the Passover traditions. Each one is immersed in their own way, and we can learn something about mental wellness and how to create community from all of them.</p>\n\n<p>Reading about these four children, we get to learn more about ourselves and how we can build more holistic, inclusive and affirming Jewish communities. These four archetypes aren’t here to teach us about children; they are here to teach us about our role in passing Judaism and its traditions l’dor va dor (from generation to generation).</p>", "cliptype": "image", "clipsource": "https://thebluedovefoundation.org/passovers-connection-to-mental-health/", "featured": 0, "featuredIn": null, "is_public": 1, "is_published": 1, "media": { "image": "https://assets.haggadot.com/clips/344412/Screen-Shot-2022-02-08-at-2.22.19-PM.png", "audio": null, "video": null }, "thumbnail": "https://assets.haggadot.com/clips/344412/conversions/Screen-Shot-2022-02-08-at-2.22.19-PM-cover.jpg", "clip_section": [ { "haggadah_section": "-- Four Children", "slug": "four-children" } ], "likes": 0, "downloads": 302, "tags": [], "themes": [], "language": "0", "is_bookmarked": "0", "is_liked": 0, "meta_tags": { "title": "THE FOUR MENTAL HEALTH CHILDREN OF THE SEDER | Passover haggadah by The Blue Dove Foundation", "description": "Our simple platform allows you to create a custom Passover Haggadah, with access to unique content contributed by our community. 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The wise child is seeking connection. \"Please explain to me what I am supposed to learn from this,\" they ask.</p>\n\n<p>They are reaching out.</p>\n\n<p>The wise child has trust in their community, and it’s important that we respond, validate and build that trust. On the surface, the wise child appears to be the easiest child. They are engaged, they ask the question the way we want to hear it, they listen to us speak. But we need to be mindful; we never know what’s going on under the surface and should not assume a person who is smiling is okay.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone has mental health challenges to some degree, and struggles affect us all. Moreover, it’s hard to be the wise child. The drive to fit that role and be high achieving can put a lot of pressure on a child, and it doesn’t always lead to a healthy sense of self-preservation, boundary setting and a work-life balance that encourages self-care.</p>\n\n<p>We live in a world that’s afraid of failure, one that translates “I failed a task” to “I am a failure.” It’s important to remember even the wisest among us is constantly learning and to teach the next generation that failure is not a tatoo but merely a bruise.</p>", "cliptype": "image", "clipsource": "https://thebluedovefoundation.org/passovers-connection-to-mental-health/", "featured": 0, "featuredIn": null, "is_public": 1, "is_published": 1, "media": { "image": "https://assets.haggadot.com/clips/344414/Screen-Shot-2022-02-08-at-3.43.29-PM.png", "audio": null, "video": null }, "thumbnail": "https://assets.haggadot.com/clips/344414/conversions/Screen-Shot-2022-02-08-at-3.43.29-PM-cover.jpg", "clip_section": [ { "haggadah_section": "-- Four Children", "slug": "four-children" } ], "likes": 0, "downloads": 290, "tags": [], "themes": [], "language": "0", "is_bookmarked": "0", "is_liked": 0, "meta_tags": { "title": "The Wise Child | Passover haggadah by The Blue Dove Foundation", "description": "Our simple platform allows you to create a custom Passover Haggadah, with access to unique content contributed by our community. 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We are told to respond by saying, “This service helps us remember and learn from our people’s journey to freedom.”It’s worth noting that not one of these children is disengaged.</p>\n\n<p>Even the wicked child, who gets a bad reputation, is engaged in the material. A child who genuinely doesn’t care would not say anything. The wicked child pushes back because they are feeling something. Perhaps they are struggling and feeling alone, or maybe they don't see themselves represented in the Passover story. Still, the wicked child doesn't stick their hands in their ears, and they don't text under the table. They push and lash outward, trying to find their place. Perhaps they don’t feel secure. Think about how frequently we say, “Psht, I don’t care” or “whatever, I’m fine” when we are hurting.</p>\n\n<p>And the wicked child has a purpose.</p>\n\n<p>Although they are trying to test our patience, they teach us to examine our own behavior. We can learn through this child how to support our loved ones and become their allies. But first we need to learn to listen, reflect and understand why the wicked child feels this way. When a child feels like they don’t fit into their own community, it’s on us to change it.</p>\n\n<p>To the wicked child, we have to reply to their question with our own. Yes, we can try and show them we identify with the story, but we need to ask them why they don’t. 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Mental health is a topic we often shroud in shame and one we don't learn about.</p>\n\n<p>No one should feel ashamed to ask basic questions.The simple child teaches us to meet people where they are at emotionally. When someone doesn't understand something, we don't use words that make sense to us; instead, we are asked to use the language they already have.</p>\n\n<p>The simple child teaches us empathy.</p>\n\n<p>We all think and react differently, and when communicating with someone, you need to really see them, validate their understanding of the world, and seek connection. We don't try to change the simple child. We don't tell them their question is silly, childish or naive. We don't give them a vocabulary lesson. 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May all the inhabitants of this universe acknowledge the one great truth; that we have not come into this world for friction and dissension, nor enmity and jealousy and vexation and bloodshed. We have come into the world solely that we might know You, eternally blessed One.</p><p><br /></p><p>And therefore have mercy upon us that through us the written word will become a reality. “And I will grant peace in the land, and you shall lie down untroubled by anyone; I will give the land respite from vicious beasts and no sword shall cross your land.” (Leviticus 26:6) “But let justice well up like water, righteousness like an unfailing stream.” (Amos.5:24) “For the land shall be filled with devotion to Adonai as water covers the sea.” (Isaiah 11:9)</p><p><br /></p><p> <em>By The Blue Dove Foundation. 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In the Jewish prayer tradition, a core component of the three daily prayer services is called the  <em>Amida</em>, the standing prayer, which can serve as a meaningful model for a prayer stance. You stand with your feet planted on the ground and your legs together and pray for the collective well-being of their community.</li><li>Close your eyes and meditate on your anxieties and hopes, and breathe. Another core component of the Jewish prayer service is the  <em>Shema</em>, which we recite with our eyes closed, to create a space where we can concentrate and hear the words of our prayers.</li><li>Once you have reached a state of relative calm, recite whatever prayer you like – or a personal prayer of your own – in whatever language you are most comfortable with.</li><li>Sometimes there are no words that can truly capture the range of emotions we feel, and that is OK. In the Hasidic tradition, there is a concept of silent meditation and unstructured prayer called “Hitbodedut,” which was popularized by Rebbe Nachman of Breslov. Practiced by many people daily, Hitbodedut is a silent prayer where one pours out their hearts and feelings to God in a private space. 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When someone is ill or recovering from illness or an accident, we often recite a misheberach to wish them a refuah sheleimah, or a “full recovery.” We have expanded the prayer for those who are struggling with mental health.</p><p><br /></p><p><u>Mi Sheberach for Mental Health</u>: </p><p>May the One who blessed our ancestors and named us Israel bless and heal those among us who struggle with mental well-being. May they acknowledge their own strength and resilience, treat themselves with forgiveness and patience, and find help, compassion, and resources when they need them. And, may the Holy One grant those of us who aren’t experiencing mental health issues the strength, resilience and capacity to listen without judgment and with intention, and the ability to notice when others are struggling. May we create communities that accept, uplift, and support those among us who are struggling. Now, speedily, and in a time soon to come. Amen.</p><p><br /></p><p>The Blue Dove Foundation with Association of Reform Jewish Educators </p>", "cliptype": "text", "clipsource": "https://thebluedovefoundation.org/resource/arje-mi-sheberachs-for-mental-health/", "featured": 1, "featuredIn": { "title": "2024 Favorites", "slug": "untitled-haggadah-41-32", "author": "Haggadot" }, "is_public": 1, "is_published": 1, "media": { "image": null, "audio": null, "video": null }, "thumbnail": null, "clip_section": [ { "haggadah_section": "Bareich", "slug": "bareich" } ], "likes": 0, "downloads": 24, "tags": [ { "tag": "Blessings", "slug": "blessings" }, { "tag": "Healing", "slug": "healing" }, { "tag": "Mental Health", "slug": "mental-health" }, { "tag": "Mindfulness", "slug": "mindfulness" }, { "tag": "Misheberach", "slug": "misheberach" }, { "tag": "Prayer", "slug": "prayer" }, { "tag": "Recovery", "slug": "recovery" }, { "tag": "Wellness", "slug": "wellness" } ], "themes": [], "language": "0", "is_bookmarked": "0", "is_liked": 0, "meta_tags": { "title": "Mi Sheberach For Mental Health | Passover haggadah by The Blue Dove Foundation", "description": "Our simple platform allows you to create a custom Passover Haggadah, with access to unique content contributed by our community. 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