Hosting the Poor: The Right Thing to do or Just a Nice Thing to Do?

Haggadah Section: Commentary / Readings

כל דכפין ייתי ויכול, כל דצריך ייתי ויפסח


Whomever is hungry: come and eat! Whomever needs: come and partake in the Passover rites
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Do we mean it, or are we saying it because it's in the text?  Maybe it's like the Egyptians telling the Jews after the Ten Plagues: "Please, take all of our riches...just leave Egypt before we all die!"  Perhaps we're being passive-aggressive.  Perhaps cognitive dissonance is at play: we don't really want the poor to come, but if we keep saying it, it'll make us want them to come...or we're just being genuinely nice.

Charity is a feel-good and feel-bad concept.  It's universally good, but its extent is strongly divisive.  Call it "Charity," "Welfare," "Entitlement," "Support," "Investment," "Donation," "Support," "Disability Insurance," or what-have-you, and we realize that it comes in many different forms with many different levels of merit.  It's merit may seem to scale with physical and financial sacrifice.

Fortunately, Judaism offers many role models for charity.  For instance, the Talmud (Baba Metzi'a 86b) says that Abraham and Sarah, the paradigm of hospitality, served each of their guests a bull when they would crash their tent.  On the negative side, the Talmud (Gittin 56a) blames the final destruction of Jewish Jerusalem (70 C.E.) on a stubborn wealthy wedding host who wouldn't host his enemy at any cost or benefit.

Is Charity an Obligation or Just a Nice Thing to Do?

Yet, despite our steadfast support for charity and clear signs in the Bible, we must categorize charity as one of three ethical levels, in order of obligation:

1) Charity is neither mandated, nor are we expected to do it.  In Hebrew, we'd say it's לפנים משורת הדין, or "ex gratia" in legalese, where it's just totally beyond what the ethics expects from us.  No one asked you to bring donuts to work, but we'd all appreciate it if you did.  No one asked you to travel to a disaster zone to aid relief efforts, but we're grateful for it.  When we invite the poor to our Passover seder, we actually mean it and are genuinely magnanimous in our efforts.


2) Charity isn't mandated, but we're expected to do it.  You don't merge on the highway at the last second and you give up your seat up to the handicapped, but not because it's the law...it's because it's the right thing to do.  We invite the poor to our Passover seder because it's a nice Jewish custom as recalled in the text of the Haggadah and not doing so would be awkward and un-Jewish.


3) Charity is mandated.  You volunteer for the local ambulance corps because someone must do it.  You give money towards social security because society cannot allow its own to sleep in the streets and be hungry lest everyone suffer.  We invite the poor to our Passover seder because the words are written in the Haggadah that we will invite the poor to our Passover seder.

The term for an ethic that is beyond the norm is " supererogation. "   Depending on which level of obligation a particular charity, your recommended level of giving will change.  For instance, if charity is mandated, you may be required to tithe your income.  Some may argue further: people do not own property and they are responsible for sharing their wealth equitably.  Therefore, charity is not even a nice thing to do: it's the required natural course of action.

The same dilemma applies when dealing with any ethical norms, religious or secular.  For instance, is the dress code in a particular circumstance, a wedding, workplace, or Passover seder, a custom, "מנהג," or a mandate, "חובה?"  May I force everyone behind me in the grocery line wait longer while I grab another a bottle of Peisachovka (Passover vodka) as a gift for my seder host?

On this holiday of freedom, Passover, let's do kindness out of true free will.  Let's ask questions that we wouldn't normally ask, invite others who we normally wouldn't meet, and raise ourselves to levels that we normally hadn't acheived.

Follow-Up Questions:

1.) Give an example of an act of kindness that everyone is expected to do.  Give an example of kindness that is above and beyond what anyone is expected to do?

2.) If someone asked you about an act which wasn't required, but was a nice thing to do, how would you respond?  Would different people have different levels of obligation?

3.) Should charity and kind deeds be mandated?  Would a mandate enhance or degrade the greatness of the good deed and willingness of people to perform the good deed?

References

Heyd, David, "Supererogation", The Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy (Fall 2008 Edition), Edward N. Zalta (ed.), URL = <http://plato.stanford.edu/archives/fall2008/entries/supererogation/>.

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